tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4222958655788368904.post3203876867932590413..comments2016-11-25T08:51:11.495+10:00Comments on writing myself sane: Because its the right thing to do (Or F*ck it all to Hell!)Opheliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16809979257521630378noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4222958655788368904.post-698349007076669862010-03-03T21:20:38.281+10:002010-03-03T21:20:38.281+10:00I'd love to be able to say something that woul...I'd love to be able to say something that would help but I have nothing. People keep telling me to just put one foot in front of the other, small steps, blah blah, and hopefully it will help. I'm thinking of you, have read a shed-load of your previous posts in my Google Reader, and I have immense respect for you. I hope the time passes quickly until the anniversary is over.<br /><br />*Hugs*Karitahttp://razzler.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4222958655788368904.post-80106316955784126162010-03-03T07:46:47.293+10:002010-03-03T07:46:47.293+10:00I've been in situations like yours before, and...I've been in situations like yours before, and I've conlcuded that ther isn't a right or wrong thing to do, just things that are either helpful or unhelpful, healthy or unhealthy. Thinking about it in those terms helps make decisions more clear.Stanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01448066827760753757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4222958655788368904.post-86866426327378776342010-03-03T05:40:13.362+10:002010-03-03T05:40:13.362+10:00I've been here, in that place of never getting...I've been here, in that place of never getting better. I know you have a horrible anniversary coming and that is not going to be helping you either. Doing the mundane things, although not what you want, will hopefully help somewhat in getting you through. I got stuck in the cycle you are talking about until I was about 29 and then for some unknown reason, it seemed to smooth out. I found my biggest thing was keeping busy but feeling worthwhile. If I wasn't working or studying, I felt like a piece of crap and since I did less courses than everyone else, I found that it often wasn't enough structure. I needed structure so bad. I volunteered at the RSPCA in their office and also doing cat cuddles, which broke my heart but anyway. I just hope you can get through this and I'm thinking of you. Thanks for your comment. Yay that it's not raining right now but it says showers for the next few days. Ugh! I like rain, don't get me wrong but yesterdays rain was awful to be in.<br />*hugs*<br />SarahSairshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09110575221596955775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4222958655788368904.post-46579482022169673032010-03-03T00:12:37.976+10:002010-03-03T00:12:37.976+10:00I wish I could say something constructive but I re...I wish I could say something constructive but I really can't think of anything. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and sending hugs, for the little that is worth.<br /><br />Please take care as best you can. xxxPandorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01889407012522077135noreply@blogger.com